You have a problem with pretty girls, while your friend everything goes perfectly. Cute girls just cling to him. But those same pretty girls for some reason are starting to avoid you after the first meetings. What don't the girls like in you?Perhaps you're just the type of man who discourages the representatives of the opposite gender. Certain types of men can attract or discourage women. It particularly relevant is at the stage of dating.
Below are named and described male character traits which deters any women and not only cute or pretty girls. Knowing them, you will be able to control yourself and make a favorable first impression on girls.
1. Needy woman's attention.
He is a very emotional, imparts a girl all his feelings and emotions. He constantly doubts in himself, he needs to hear that all is well between him and girl, that he had a good work, friends, etc. Sexually attractive character traits of men are confidence and independence. Women strive to get a man of strong spirit, so you can scare her by your sentimentality at the stage of dating. But, as you know, women are substances of contradictory they simultaneously want two opposite qualities. Your mental becomes your trump when you will bring together and develop relations a little. Then you can talk on any hob-nob, a woman will even seek to learn what do you have in mind and heart.
2. Predictable.
It is dull to communicate with a man who always acts on the pattern and never presents surprises. Unpredictability and the spirit of freedom attract women, so they give themselves up in the hands of "bad guys" so often. That does not mean that you should become a "bad guy". Just be different, mix predictability and unpredictability. For example, suddenly call and invite her to dinner or a trip to nature.
3. Arrogant.
He condescends to communicate with people and talks with them as if they are worse and more
silly than he, gross with those he considers them bellowed himself. A woman estimates a man by how he communicates with others. Thus, she foresees how a man will communicate with her when they are closer acquaintance. If you want to impress a woman, do show more respect to others. Remember, she oversees you.
4. Ill-mannered.
He undisguisedly examines other cute women in her presence, may even to flirt a little. That does not confuse him. He can talk about his past victories at the amorous front. In general, all this shows that he does not respect women. Such a behaviour will not like a woman, both at the stage of dating, and at the stage of serious relationships.
5. Greedy.
He invites the woman to visit and subtly hints that it would be a good idea to pay Dutch treat. He will not come down with money once again for bouquet of flowers and always orders cheap wine. From the first date a woman feels in the mode of austerity. The words "budget" and "savings", are not germane on the first date. At the stage of courting a woman should feel special, otherwise nothing will do.
6. Debater.
Any conversation he turns into verbal battle. The woman does not feel comfortable at the time, she has to defend herself, to think about what she said. To communicate with a rival lover is a stress. If you have this feature, try to relax mostly during the visits, as well as a desire to start a dispute comes to you from the fact that you are nervous and do not know what to say. Pre consider the possible topics for discussions and questions that you can ask your girl.
7. Considers himself always right.
Such a man feels entitled to judge others. From the first visit, he begins to indicate the woman what she would do and what not to do. Such behaviour cause a woman nothing but feelings of irritation and anger. Who will like that someone reads a lecture to her, yet even on the first date. The cases, features, character and deeds of a stranger, all these are the personal matter. If you do not like something in girl already on the first date, do not continue to meet with this woman. Each person has advantages and disadvantages, one can tolerate some of them, the other can not. To alter the other person is not a grateful work.
8. Misogynist.
A man of this type makes no secret of his attitude to women, releasing cynical and offensive comments relatively to the entire female sex, and towards his girl in particular. This is definitely one of the men's qualities, which total-lot causes any negative reaction from the women. If you are a misogynist, why would you even go to visit? To verify once more your rightness or in the hope of finding your ideal there? If you do want to find your half, then you have to discard the illusions (there are no perfect people), and to change yourself, become tolerant. And pretty girls will stop to avoid you.
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