These days it is difficult to get back on the bike so to speak, after a divorce or break up. As a veteran of the dating scene, that finally found the one I want to spend my life with, here are a few reasons Why Online Dating Services worked for me.
1. You do not have to go to the bars.
Safety in numbers seems less and less these days. You are less likely to get drunk and make bad choices that will haunt you for the rest of your life. Did you see Knocked UP?
2. Time
All of us are working more and enjoying time less. Between working, daycare, piano lessons, football practice, work outs and whatever else your busy life entails, you do not have the time to get ready and go out and scope out a relationship. This makes the scoping part less and leaves more time for internet intrigue. Your, would be partner, is, usually, up front and personal right away and you do not have to guess if your right for each other. Or at least you can decide right away, if you are wrong for each other such as smoker/nonsmoker etc.
3. Anonymous
You do not have to put yourself out there for the wolves, so to speak. You can take your time and look, but do not leap. You can shop till you drop and you will not hurt their feelings.
4. You Can have Several first Dates.
The excitement of dating, again, testing the waters is at your fingertips literally. There are so many people using the net now, that it not the, desperate, thing to do, it is the standard thing to do. With 50 percent of us divorcing, we need to take our time and just date before we jump head on into a relationship.
5. More truthful in an e-mail
For some reason, maybe because it is so anonymous to begin with you get a truer picture of those who are on the dating scene. They cannot scam for long without being deleted from the service and there is also that, let it all hang out, feeling. You can go to the next if you do not like what you see or cyber, so people tend to be themselves. You can be honest, let it all hang out and wait for the one to accept all of your good and bad qualities before you meet them face to face.
6. Cheaper,
Ok if you want to feel better about it, Less expensive.
Lets face it, divorced = poor to most, at the beginning anyway, and it makes for a bigger pool of like income people to date.
7. Cyber-sex is Safe sex
You can be as experimental as you want without any repercussions.
There is no worry about who you did it with or whether or not you have any nasty diseases, because it is all out there in Never Never Land.
By: Jacquie Gehrke
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