Saturday, May 31, 2008

Russian Women And Beauty.

Choosing clothes, we are usually guided by the criteria of taste and fashion and do not reflect on the influence the colors and style have on our sexual instincts. Many people cannot even imagine that the very utility clothes can be more erotic than the most extravagant lingerie.

Create a Sexual Silhouette
Imagine the outlines of a male and female body and try to recall what their prominent features and distinctions are. We see contours of a figure from a distance and they are the first thing we pay attention to. If you want to look sexual, the main requirement for your clothes is to help the process of your gender identification instead of preventing from it. In fact, the concept that we regard as sexuality first of all means maleness or feminity.

The simplest decision is maximum of open body uncovered by the clothes. Short skirts and low necked dresses give women an indisputable advantage in demonstrating perfection of their forms. Men are not so critical as many women think. Men can as well uncover their chest, shoulders and hands, especially if they are strong and brawny. When it is too cold to expose yourself, do not get into despair. Clothes densely fitting the body also look sexual. Narrow trousers and skirts, closely fitting things and elastic materials also emphasize the maleness or feminity of your figure.

It was not by mere chance, that the beginning of jeans fashion concurred with the period of sexual revolution. Being a material that fades with wearing, denim to the best advantage accentuates the relief of male and female body.

If you feel uncomfortable in tight-fitting clothes, you can put on something chunky, soft and translucid. Most favorably it looks in motion when each movement reveals separate details and adds new fragments to the mosaic of your image. You should be more attentive with rigid fabrics and volumetric details. Expanded shoulders make your silhouette look more musculine, while the clothes that visually broaden your hips emphasize feminity. Therefore, big artificial shoulders in lady's clothes and baggy trousers hanging loose around man's buttocks do not improve your sexual successfulness.


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Choosing Sexual Color
Various colors have different effects on the most secret corners of our mentality including feelings, emotions and ancient instincts. Color aura is determinted not only by the color of clothes but also by the color of hair, lips, skin, different details and accessories.

Contrast intensive colors call for "sexual Duel". Black color is the most effective one, then follows red and white. That's why these colors are widely used in erotic lingerie. However, the combination of these colors is almost provocative. Those who like quick and vigorous sex should try to take advantage of this opportunity selecting the clothes of proper gamma. In such a way, a white-skinned woman in a black dress wearing scarlet lipstick will have a great sexual appeal for men.

If you prefer refined sensuality to vigorous sex use soft pastel tones. Lilac and light blue attract creative intellectuals, while pale greenish shades are admired by poetical philosophers, as long as ivory and rose-pink appeal for sentimental romantics. "Cheerful" colors such as orange, cannary and emerald green supported by print fabrics and motley patterns help to create comfortable atmosphere and make the dialogue easier. Those people who see sex as a pleasant game and source for pleasure and comfort may take advatage of suchlike clothes to find a common-minded partner.

If you want to protect yourself from importunity, you should use brown or moccasin shades. These colors symbolize constancy and readiness to follow habits, norms and rules,while khaki and mustard shades point at disinclination for sexual adventures.

Unnaturally bright "acid" colors are peculiar to defiant people whose main goal is public attention. Sexual appeal takes place rather in their manners and talks than in actions. Even when they do something they claim to be able to do, they do it for the sake of their image and not because they really get pleasure in it. Grey and faded shades imply reserved manners, shyness, uncertainty and unwillingness to stand out from the crowd. But under such a shell there can be hidden a sexual pearl, which will probably shine in your hands.

Don't Forget about Erotic Details
Surveys taken on the matter of the most erotic parts of male and female body have shown the most unexpected results. For men, the most sexual parts of female body were not legs or bust, but rather full lips and a dimple above the breast. The things that women regarded most sexual in men were brawny shoulders and tough buttocks instead of a big penis as many men would expect. Despite the unexpectedness of these opinions, people tried to draw attention to these parts of the body for a long time. Women used to rouge their lips from the times immemorial. If you want your lips to look more chubby and eloquent, it is better to use two lipsticks applying a darker one over the contour and a lighter one in the middle. "The most erotic" point on the chest since ancient times was decorated by various necklaces, and as well you'd better not to neglect this sexual trick. Men used to draw attention to their shoulders by tattooes and epaulettes symbolizing their power and status.

In modern clothes their role is carried out by decorative epaulettes and stripes. Just the same, hip-pockets, useless from the practical point of view, contrast lines and labels in jeans fashion are made to draw attention to the "underside" of masculine sexuality.

Hairdress, as well, is an important element of your image.
The rigid superfashionable hairstyle "flavoured" with varnishes and gels is a feature of a furious fighter of sexual front. Refined seducers and seductresses are hiding behind long romantic locks, although they quite know their real worth and sometimes even try to advance it. Owners of a fine crop of hair are inclined to oral caresses and long and pleasurable lovemaking. Slick hair are perceived as an attribute of obstinacy and indifference to the spheres of sex and sensuality.

Perhaps, the most disputable attributes of modern sexuality are three days' stubble on a man's face and feminine short bloomers. The three days' bristle undoubtedly helps to create a more manly image. But a sensitive woman will obviously imagine what sensations may emerge when such a scrub touches her gentle skin, and she will hardly want to try it. Shorts enable women to show the best of their legs more effectively than any extra-short skirt. But, in such a case, men's glances, despite all natural laws capable of travelling not only along a straight line, meet there a Chinese Wall and quickly cool down. Stubbles and shorts affect aesthetical perception, but bring no sexual appeal.

Therefore, they mostly attract those who prefer "erotic shows" to real intimacy.

Find The Style
Official business style has been initially created so that sexual fluids were unable to prevent from work. Another thing hardly compatible to sex is sports. Moreover, sports frequently serves as a "substitute" to sex, or as psychologists call it, as a sublimation of it. If you want your communication with the opposite sex to be successful, do not put on a business or gym suit going out. Leave them for the office and gym. What style will you regard as the most sexual - romantic, extravagant, classical or free-form? Everything depends on you.

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Your Essential Guide To Avoiding Online Dating Scams

It is widely acknowledged that the Internet has opened up many doors for people everywhere, giving them access to all sorts of products, services and information that they would never have

had before. However, it has also opened up the gateway for millions of con artists to take advantage of people that do not even live in the same country as them! UK online dating is no different in that respect. You can meet people from all over the country but can also fall victim to them as well.

Unfortunately, it can be difficult to tell the legitimate UK online dating sites from the bogus ones at a glance. They may look the same and navigation may feel the same, but this is exactly why the bogus UK online dating sites are successful. The incidence of online dating scams has risen in the last year or so but you can avoid falling victim to them by reading on!

There are two common types of UK online dating scams – the email scam and the fake site scam. The former is when an email is sent to you regarding a site that you are already a member of, but the latter is a UK online dating site that has been set up specifically to lure people to it with the sole intention of ripping them off. The following lists will give you a checklist so you know exactly what to look for!

The Email Scam

  • The majority of emails sent to you by UK online dating sites will start with your member number or real name. A bogus email will start with your screen name. For example, instead of John Smith it will read jsmith007.
  • The email will always have a link contained in it. Whether or not you think that the email is real, always log in by inputting the web address into your browser. Never click on links to sites in emails.
  • If you are doubly suspicious then go to the site via Google. No search engine will index a duplicate site because it is usually hastily set up so it can easily be taken down again and leave no tracks for law enforcement to follow.
  • If you suspect that a phishing email (the correct term for them) has been sent to you then report it to the UK online dating site itself. They will confirm whether or not it is real.The

    Bogus Site Scam

    A bogus site will often be introduced to you via an email. Again, search for the site through Google or Yahoo to make sure that it appears on the search engines to verify its existence.

    Check out the UK online dating profiles. Bogus profiles will appear to be very similar in most cases and will almost certainly seem hastily put up. Most people take a little time over their profiles.

    When you go onto a payment page, it may be difficult to tell the difference, but always check for a little padlock appearing in the corner of your browser. This means that it is verified and secure. Another indicator of this is a web address beginning with “https” and not “http”.

    Finally, search the Internet for reviews of the individual site. If it is real then there will be a number of reviews written by real people available for you to read.

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Sunday, May 25, 2008

Torn Pantyhose As A Way To Conquer A Woman... Tips For Men (From Woman)

Well. You are young, free, and a lady appeared on the horizon, when looking at whom a obstinate snake of the loneliness runs up to the neck. Lady is good, arrogant, impregnable, and pays no heed to you. You want badly to see the lady undressed. Well, at least in the home dressing gown to let the sawdust out. A she-goat, on which you can get to the right side to her, as ill luck would have it, does not arise. But a corporate party arises, where she will inevitably be. Even if the party does not regard you, you must be there. How - the case of fantasy. You can get acquainted with someone from her entourage, and you can come just without invitation, pretending strenuously that you are the most welcome guest there. Still, no one will understand, whose.

For the party buy a bouquet of roses. Not the most expensive, but necessarily the most thorny. Do not let bouquet slip out of hands even for a minute - it is the main object which is indispensable for the acquaintance.The lady, certainly, is not deprived of attention. Next to her the steep file of men of various ages and status infinitely is. Don't let this discourage you. Keep closer to her, but do not need to take action. Still she will not notice, among a myriad numbers of admirers. Despite the bouquet. To make her to notice, you need to commit something unusual.

Do not worry, to dance naked on the table, to crow and stand head over heels you do not need.

Everything is simple. Fans are being cared, trying to please, - you just be alongside, not trying to please. You must look pensive and abstract, but do not forget about the bouquet.

And wait in the wings.
Attention! She is coming to the table. Those around give her a chair. Rush ahead and move aside the chair. Here your big time comes! She, of course, has fallen, angry, but remembered you! Therefore, she will start to look narrowly, burning with the desire to take revenge. The beginning initiated. Read more.

Thus, she fell. From fear you drop on her the bouquet of roses. Flowers will give incident a slight charm, and accordingly to physics law, will tear over-priced panty-hose. Should have to buy new one, that will be a reason for the next meeting. And then, it will enable sure the entire evening to be beside on the pretext of that the hole in the panty-hose must be concealed from the eyes of others.

Mask it actively and thoroughly, in depth, shield with back, snuggle up to leg and draw lady to the most distant corner, away from the eyes of rivals. Then, on the same pretext, offer to take her home. She will agree. For women there is nothing worse than to defile through the entire city with an arrow in the most visible place. (Agree that the legs are the most prominent!)

And here we are already leading her to car. Be sure to tell by the way several times that you do something the other way, you're badly hurry, in general - knickers, you do not need all this! As a result, she will feel obliged, despite the fact that the author of torn panty-hose were you. Furthermore.

Mind you don't open the door of car before her. She will immediately decide that you are ready to give up entire world to her legs. I know this exactly, I am the same. Instead, sit down in cold blood at your place and throw away dissatisfied:

- Well, what is? How soon? I am late!

Let her be messing about the latched door, losing her perky look. Can you imagine what it is a beautiful woman in torn tights, stupidly jumping in front of the car? I have not seen more absurd spectacle! I had been jumping myself! Drive offhandedly and with speed. With whistling at cornering. Let her squeal from fear, losing self-possession. A frightened woman - easy prey. The fine for speeding in this case - a disappointing trifle. What will be then, will compensate the loss of more than money!

Next. Take her to your home, suddenly remembered that you quite forgotten to feed the cat. It is necessary to have a cat. Better to borrow from the neighbor. He Will shout of desperation, which is quite get over the hungry roar. If she will be outraged and demand to immediately bring her home, charge her with hard-heartedness and cruelty to animals. Even if she hates the cats all the same will agree to go. Which women can accept the fact that she is a ruthless, selfish shrew?

Having arrived. The cat must have been shown necessarily, so drag her into the apartment. It is desirable that the apartment was on the twelfth floor, and the elevator did not work (you can arrange about with the lift-boy). Let her puff over, up the stairs. She will get tired and sweated, that will give you an excuse to offer her the bath. She will agree, because they do not want to look fright even before you. Mind you don't remove from the cache the candles and brandy until she takes a bath. Trite and boring. Give her your old bathrobe and push to the kitchen, explaining your actions that for the fifth month have dinner with ravioli from shop.

Let her cook the cutlets. Minced meat should to buy in advance. She will immediately understand that you are - a) bachelor, b) a hungry bachelor.

No woman in this case will remain indifferent. While she cooks cutlets, silently take the cat back to the neighbor, kit up in tricot (preferably torn) and slippers, and have a sit quietly in front of the TV with newspaper.

This initially so melts! Besides, it is a symbol of calm family life. Now, the cutlets are fried, eaten together and this is a crucial moment. Mind you don't hesitate, hum and haw and to mutter that it's too late, you have to go to work early morning, and therefore to sit at the wheel, nothing should be. She will understand misinterpreted and make off, not even demanding money for a taxi.

Just say with authority: - "It is time to sleep! Come on!" And then stand up and go to the bedroom. You will see, by inertia, she will follow you.

Well, in a bedroom act with lightning speed so that she could not come round and make off. And try to make sure that she does not fall asleep until morning. Don't give a damn for the work! Once you can!

Bidding farewell in the morning, casually kiss her cheek, murmur: "I'll call you", and disappear. For sure, now she will not forget! There is no a stronger impact in ambition! Gee whiz, to buy panty-hose at her own expense!

Mind you don't call immediately. Even if feel like, you should wait at least a week. Well, a couple of days, when even quite unbearable! And then, dialed number, casually say:

- I bought minced, would have to fry cutlets!

She will come flying like one o'clock. How can she condemn you for the cutletless existence?

That's all.

Have read? And now do everything within an accuracy of vice versa. Because all this -the right path to marriage. Personally, I did so get married.



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Wednesday, May 21, 2008

Beauty Of Women In Bikini.

Beauty is great power, and it is, on the opinion of classics, that will save the world. Beauty is a personal matter of taste. Of course, you agree that "tastes differ". The perception of beauty is a matter of personal subjective opinion. They often say: "Beauty arises under the eyes of the observer!"

And what is the beauty of women, resulting under the eyes of men observers?

The men of different nationalities appreciate the beauty of women in different ways. The most beautiful woman from the Peruvian Majorun is considered she who has more flinders in the lower lip, tattooed and colorized body, necklaces of monkey teeth,the feathers, shells, sticks in hair, nose and ears… The Natchi feel ugly a man, who has not artificially deformed skull. Philippine Palavenjo file and blacken the teeth. In Senegal, Wolof women make hairstyle of plenty of braids standing on ends. Vietnamese Zyaray put on the spiral bracelets to extend the neck…

How do modern men appreciate the beauty? What are qualities or traits of girls considered to be mainly in the definition of "beauty"?

The very first competition of beauties was held back in 1888 at the Belgian Spa resort. And naturally, the organizers of this event were men. The girls-finalists were selected from photographs sent to the jury. The contest was very unassuming. Participants were concealed from the public, they lived in a house where outsiders were not allowed, competitors were being brought to contest in a closed dearborn. All the men present at the contest were dressed in tailcoats, and the women - in long dresses. The Winner has become a 18-years-old Creole Berta Sukare from Guadeloupe, she received a prize of five thousand francs.

The first "Miss Germany" was selected in 1909. It was the 17-years-old seller of cigarettes. The jury considered her not only the title of the most beautiful girl of Germany, but also the entire world. They reasoned, probably like this: if she is good to us, then there is no girl better, certainly, among foreign girls. It was this "Miss Germany -Universe", who had her photo taken on advertising postcards for the first time.

And only in 1921 the girls for the first time appeared on stage in swimsuits on the selection of "Miss America". On April 15, 1951 in London there was held for the first time a contest "Miss World". The idea of competition belonged to Eric Morley, who turned the beauty contest in a bright show.

Competitors appeared on stages in swimsuits "bikini", which were at that time still poorly known and caused the real furore. To compete in beauty contests are now allowed only unmarried women without children, aged from 18 to 27. And throughout the year, when Miss has victorious crown, she has no right to marry.

Nowadays the finale of the "Miss World" contest is in live broadcast to more than 70 countries around the world. The total audience of viewers is 2 billion.

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Sunday, May 18, 2008

Married And Still Dating

If you are reading this, you probably fall into one of two categories; one, you’re married and you are thinking of cheating on your spouse, or two, you are wondering what the heck this article is going to be about and you just had to click and see! Well, if you are thinking about cheating, you’ve already given up on doing all you can to keep that spark alive that got the two of you together anyway, so go find another article. This one won’t be what you are looking for.

Did I just mention the “spark”? OK, everyone, be honest. In the beginning, you know, while you were in that dating stage, before the sharing responsibilities, before the kids, the shared pets, working different shifts, maybe different days off, before bills, BEFORE MARRIAGE, what used to happen?


I know I used to go dancing, I went on dinner dates that required dressing up (and that means a little bit of makeup and a comb through your hair!)(NO McDonalds!), we walked along the beach at sunset and we went on picnics at the park and talked the day away. You and your partner did things together, you were on your best behavior, and you enjoyed each other’s company.

So WHAT HAPPENED?

LIFE HAPPENS! THINGS CHANGE!

But do they really have to? I mean, all the time?

No, they don’t! And you all have to do is to make an effort and little by little either keep that spark burning or find ways to bring it back if it’s starting to flicker and fade. It doesn’t take much effort, it doesn’t even have to take much money, but there has to be a conscious thought that “I want to spend time with my partner today”.

It may be taking a short walk through the neighborhood after dinner (holding hands, of course), maybe get a sitter (or sitter swap if you are on a budget) for a few hours and go see a movie (cuddling is great for this activity, hint, hint!). How about dressing up instead of wearing those jeans (or sweats) and t-shirt and going window shopping together? One, you will feel good about looking so HOT (and don’t you feel sexy when you know you are looking good?), you get to spend time with your honey, AND you get to talk about all of those things you are looking at while you are shopping. (This is a great time to drop hints about what you’d like for that birthday coming up or try and see if you can figure out what he’d really like for Father’s Day! Doesn’t he have enough ties, maybe he’d like that new fishing pole in the Sports Department this year?)

Do either of you brown bag your lunch to bring to work? When was the last time you snuck a note or a cute card in the bag to be read when lunch comes around? Just a simple “I love you! XOXOX” on a sticky note is sure to bring a smile to your partner’s face. Ever see those little “love coupon booklets” (I’ve seen them at Barnes and Noble and Wal-Mart to name a few) that you can tear out a page and leave on a pillow or hide in a suitcase for those who travel to see when they arrive at their destination? Some of them are very sweet and lovey dovey and some of them are just “HUBBA HUBBA”, you start hot flashing and the steam starts coming out of your ears! Whew! YOU decide how far you want to go. The look on your partner’s face may be enough to get things into perspective, nothing like SEEING that you are turning on the love of your life to get your own juices flowing! Wow, talk about a turn on, right?

When was the last time that instead of turning off the lights at night and waiting to see who starts snoring first (let’s get real, ladies, some of US snore, too!) that the lights get turned down to dim, you warm up some lotion or a lightly scented oil and gave your honey a rub down? My partner just goes all boneless and limp, then when I start rubbing his feet, I’d swear he’s part cat, he is literally PURRING! Just don’t forget to WARM the oil or lotion up; cold lotion will NOT relax your partner! LOL

Have I said yet that my husband has NEVER just let himself go to sleep after I give him that extra attention? Oh, no, my honey can’t wait to return the favor with the scented oil, he takes his time on MY feet (oh, my God, limp just does not describe how your body feels with a good foot rub!) and by the time he reaches my back, we are back to the HUBBA, HUBBA stage! I don’t think anyone needs me to explain any further what that means, right?

I’m going to go out on a little limb now and mention “phone sex”! I mean, come on, be honest, didn’t you have phone sex (whether it was just heavy flirting or all out petting yourself and telling your partner what you were doing) BEFORE you were married? I’m sure that most of you did (I can’t be in the minority, right?) (I am so laughing on this one, HUBBA, HUBBA, the memories . . .) So why does that have to stop because you are married and have kids? Wouldn’t you think that this is the BEST time to have phone sex? Now, be smart and think about the condition of your partner if you call him on his way TO work and get him all hot and bothered, I mean, do you really want his boss to see him that way? Well, some of you may be twisted enough to do this (I am so laughing on this one!), BUT calling him on the way HOME can be so productive, especially if you can have Grandma pick up the kids for a few hours and be wearing something sweet (hey, seductive works BETTER than sweet sometimes!) when you open the door for him to walk into the house.

Can you hear me say “PLAN A DATE/TIME WITH YOUR HONEY?

Nothing I’m mentioning here is anything new! Just a little bit of planning (spontaneity is wonderful, too!), just a little conscious effort, just a little bit of “he/she makes me happy and I want to spend time with them” is all it takes. You got married, so there must have been a reason why. And doesn’t it just make sense to try to keep that happiness, the joy, the satisfaction of spending time together, the contentment of being with the right person, to keep all of these things alive in your life?

I have to admit to really, truly feeling my own heart swell whenever I see an older couple walking past me, arm in arm or holding hands, and showing their connection, their love, to each other in their faces, in the way they stand next to each other.

Now, ultimately, isn’t that what we all really crave? Acceptance for what we are, no matter what, and the love we can share with the right person?

If you are married, if you have the right person, if you really love each other, DO EVERYTHING IN YOUR POWER TO KEEP THAT LOVE ALIVE! IT IS A TWO WAY STREET AND AS LONG AS YOU BOTH ALWAYS TRY TO KEEP THE OTHER HAPPY, YOU WILL ALWAYS WIN THE GAME CALLED “LOVE”!

“Married” and “Dating” do NOT need to be on separate plains, intermingle them for the very best results. HAVE FUN!

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Thursday, May 15, 2008

A Letter From Blonde Daughter To Her Blonde Mom.

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My dear mummy!

Yesterday I finally finished reading your letter. I have news too. Recently your son-in-law read a study that says that most of road accidents happen near your home. Therefore, we moved to another apartment. The apartment is beautiful, there is a washing machine here. But it does not work. Yesterday, I put linen in it, pulled the cord, and all the clothes disappeared. I am looking for Manual (a neighbor all the time proves to me that "this refuse chute is OK").

Recently, the same as my brother Tolya I got problems due to defects in detail of car. Tell you all in detail. I have a favorite dog Arnold, of a rare dwarf breed Shee-Ttsu. Typically, Arnold sits on my lap. But recently it was necessary to stall at traffic lights. I clicked on the pedal, but there was Arnold, who was able to climb somehow under it because there is no a stuff, to protect it from falling under the pedal any small animals, and the instruction does not warn about this. I immediately drew back my leg, because Arnold loudly whimpered of pain! Because of this, I crashed into another car and badly creamed my own car.

Then I was told that I was to blame in the accident, and I will have to pay for repair both mines and another car. If I must pay for that they have done poorly pedal? Had they done a car as it should be, my doggy would not be able to climb under this pedal. And nothing was written in instructions about that small pets could go under the pedal! In addition, Arnold has a fractured pad, it has to treat at veterinarian. Therefore, I need money to repair the car and for daughter's school.

Now in the mornings I have to seize an opportunity of passing metro to get to office. As a proof I send you the pictures which I made with my new phone of last brand.

At work I learn to go roller-skating. I think might be useful. After all, winter is only once a year, and I love to skate.

Your Daughter.

Oh, quite forgotten. I received your letter. So you may repeat, because the money was not really there. I checked twice.

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Russian Brides. Do Western Men Hunt For The Girls?

Do we Russian girls have something that differs us from the representatives of excellent gender, living in more prosperous countries, that foreigners are willing to spend a lot of money, if only to marry a Russian girl? Some of them come to Russia several times in stubborn pursuit of their goal.

The general view of Western men: Russian girls are kinder, more caring and thrifty. They are good wives. Women in the West, according to men's view, are materialist too much, demanding and spoiled. To some extent this is true. Russian women look better, dress elegance and neat (we have never suspected!) seem more kind and "homy".

Men in the West do not look to the welfare of the bride, the most important thing for them - external attractiveness and sexuality. Only dull-witted, poorly educated man can decide on "marriage of convenience", the rest ones can earn the status by their job. Due to the western wages it is not beyond one's power.

We can not say that there are not beautiful women in the West. There are, and quite a lot. But what distinguishes Russian women is a desire to be "loved". Our Russian women are femininity. The sea of warmth and charm is in them. Western women are pretty and smiling, quite friendly, but they are "cold". Growing up in prosperous society, they are too independent and self-sufficiency. They strongly aware of their rights and, above all, they are not obliged to tolerate the inconvenience.

The first question they ask themselves if there are any, even the smallest differences: "Why do I need this?" They are not accustomed to "renounce their principles". The more beautiful woman is, the more confident she is on her indisputable right to the very best in the life - a beautiful, sporty, smart and educated husband, of the high wealth and tireless care of her.

Western woman knows the price of them and their attractiveness. In the West, men still care for women, not vice versa! The men with whom I have had conversations (many of them were previously married), said with one accord: Russian women are good wives. They were hampered to explain what was the difference between a Russian wife and the wife from the West - both are cooking for the family, maintain the order in the house, raise children, care of the husband - but agreed in one: Russian wife - is another life, more happy and calm. According to them, with Russian wife, the marriage "works out".

We are just raised in different conditions that makes the other mode of human relations. We grew up in close apartments, where if sneeze, you can hear "Be healthy!" through out the neighbor's wall. A family of 4-people in three generations, excellently got along together (and they are getting along) in two-room small-size apartments, which would be rather little for one on Western standards. Even at the desk in our schools we have two pupils, while they have one.

The state of perpetual crowding leads to birth of healthy "feeling of comradeship" when, willy-nilly you have to make others into account. We grow up in a situation where everything depends on everyone. Russian people, and especially a woman, has a surprising ability to adapt. Nowhere, except in Russia, could be born the saying "A human is not a dog, he can be accustomed to everything." Our people feel like a fish in water, in an environment that is absolutely unbearable for any normal Westerners.

In family life, this ability is resulted as a limitless tolerance. Russian woman did not even notice any infringement of her interests, where a normal woman from the West already shut the door with a bang after a hot quarrel. The point is not that women are spoiled or ill-humored - Western woman does not have a mental mobility, which allows you to survive in this situation without losing the integrity of your ego.

This is a key point, where the differences in approach to family life are from. If there is a disagreement on any matter, the Western woman will always act according to her own understanding of the proper way out of this situation. When she is confident in her rightness, she has not thought not to take action against the husband. Even if she goes to a compromise, she would feel deeply unhappy and will not let her husband forget for a moment, what she has sacrificed.

For Russian woman a compromise is a way of life. If a violence is inevitable then to relax and enjoy. Russian woman is natural in her adoption of behavior and actions of her husband.

That does not mean that she does not try to influence on them. She just does not try them reject. She is always with her husband. That's all the secret. We are not better. We are not kinder. We just are more tolerant. Our personal scale of assessment of the values has more points, and where the western thermometer maxed out there the ours continues to work successfully. Actually this is a great thing - the ability to accept the reality and people as they are.

Another objectively existing option, which is crucial for foreigners is the place of the family in a woman's life. Our Russian woman naturally puts the family above career. The Western men call this "commitment to the traditional family values" Dating and Matchmaking agencies receive many letters from women whose career is quite successful, even on Western standards. These successful and professional women consider themselves deprived with family and children. They are happy to exchange the high professional status for the position of Western housewife.

For Western women the housewives rank is somewhere on the level of our Janitor. She can feel happy, only reaching the certain professional peaks. In principle, there is the aim to fight for - high professional status ensures a high life level. In Russia, even having a relatively high post, a woman does not receive good money, which provides the freedom and independence. With our Russian salaries - you doing any career, still will not earn money to have a decent standard of living - own country house, car and a good ability to manage them, the opportunity to travel in first class and the most important thing that money brings- the possibility not to worry anymore.

Career successes are also unstable in Russia. What happened with thousands of bank employees, which were the subject of envy and the dreams of career, after the crisis of August 1998? Frankly, the family life has potentially much more satisfying but fewer disorders, than the work.

By: Julia Pika
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